Howdy y'all ( no I don't have an accent, I just type like I do) Today at the gym I decided to watch the tele rather than read a book. Whoever was using the bike before me had it tuned to MTV. Remember when they used to just play music videos? Anyway, there was a show called "Real Life" and the point of this episode was people who were dating others who were older. The couple that I was most interested in was a 26 YO model and her 47 YO boyfriend. When I tuned in they were fighting over him wanting a prenup. Her case was that the 2 previous wives weren't required to sign one. Ok, so he's learning.. After they worked though that, she began complaining about how sick of him she was that he had purchased a company and was never home. What really chapped my hide was when he got home at about 9 PM and there was NOTHING for him to eat. Literally. She didn't appear to have a real job yet didn't cook him a thing. He had to scare up a frozen pizza and she took forever to warm that up. I was FLOORED. Seriously? She ended up leaving him, he begged her back and proposed. I don't think they are together. Between her whining about how she was wasting her youth on him and not even thinking that he might be hungry from working all day, I was ready to puke.
So... what was the deal with the prenup? Really, she OBVIOUSLY didn't contribute to anything he was doing professionally, why did it matter? Methinks I smell a golddigger... I think that the whole prenup is a good idea. Why would I try to lay claim to what a man has accomplished before he knew I drew breath? Now after we are married and I do contribute, in whatever way, and something goes awry then.. ok that's already been taken care of. I think that the whole marriage contract (which is very common and even obligatory in Islam and common in Judiasm) is a wonderful idea. Next.. the couple. Why in the world would he propose to a woman who just griped, didn't contribute to the household in anyway and wasn't understanding of his position. Was it her age? He was stuck on being with a girl in her 20s or what? I ask because, although I'm past my 20s, I have always been attracted to men in their 50s. Any insight on the deal here? I can't imagine not having a meal waiting. Even before my divorce I cooked.. why? There's blessings in that.. karma dude.. karma.
Howdy y'all ( no I don't have an accent, I just type like I do) Today at the gym I decided to watch the tele rather than read a book. Whoever was using the bike before me had it tuned to MTV. Remember when they used to just play music videos? Anyway, there was a show called "Real Life" and the point of this episode was people who were dating others who were older. The couple that I was most interested in was a 26 YO model and her 47 YO boyfriend. When I tuned in they were fighting over him wanting a prenup. Her case was that the 2 previous wives weren't required to sign one. Ok, so he's learning.. After they worked though that, she began complaining about how sick of him she was that he had purchased a company and was never home. What really chapped my hide was when he got home at about 9 PM and there was NOTHING for him to eat. Literally. She didn't appear to have a real job yet didn't cook him a thing. He had to scare up a frozen pizza and she took forever to warm that up. I was FLOORED. Seriously? She ended up leaving him, he begged her back and proposed. I don't think they are together. Between her whining about how she was wasting her youth on him and not even thinking that he might be hungry from working all day, I was ready to puke.
So... what was the deal with the prenup? Really, she OBVIOUSLY didn't contribute to anything he was doing professionally, why did it matter? Methinks I smell a golddigger... I think that the whole prenup is a good idea. Why would I try to lay claim to what a man has accomplished before he knew I drew breath? Now after we are married and I do contribute, in whatever way, and something goes awry then.. ok that's already been taken care of. I think that the whole marriage contract (which is very common and even obligatory in Islam and common in Judiasm) is a wonderful idea. Next.. the couple. Why in the world would he propose to a woman who just griped, didn't contribute to the household in anyway and wasn't understanding of his position. Was it her age? He was stuck on being with a girl in her 20s or what? I ask because, although I'm past my 20s, I have always been attracted to men in their 50s. Any insight on the deal here? I can't imagine not having a meal waiting. Even before my divorce I cooked.. why? There's blessings in that.. karma dude.. karma.
Hello, La Negrita [by the way, what does "Negrita" mean? I'm most curious.... [LOL] And....Welcome to Blogland. My take on your blog here....and I admit it's past my bedtime and I'm not thinking all that clearly....nevertheless.. So, Joker Man wants arm candy. He gets arm candy. Arm Candy wants money....she gets chores instead. Arm Candy ain't got too many brains in her head....Jokr Man has lots of brains except for in one area: LOVE!!!!!!! Joker Man gets screwed. Arm Candy moves on to some other potential sucker. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!! Joker man had better get his head together pronto. Or he's going to lose his money to some bimbo's lawsuit for this, that, or the other thing. Bimbo.....well.....she might just be a lot smarter than any of the men she tries to scam are.... Bimbo is as bimbo does, as it were..... Too damn many people are THINKING they are looking for love when all they are looking for is a huge boost to their sagging egos. JMO, Pat P.S.: Kind of looks like she's got her needs pretty well figured out.....Joker Man still hasn't a clue.!!!!!!
Hello, La Negrita [by the way, what does "Negrita" mean? I'm most curious.... [LOL] And....Welcome to Blogland. My take on your blog here....and I admit it's past my bedtime and I'm not thinking all that clearly....nevertheless.. So, Joker Man wants arm candy. He gets arm candy. Arm Candy wants money....she gets chores instead. Arm Candy ain't got too many brains in her head....Jokr Man has lots of brains except for in one area: LOVE!!!!!!! Joker Man gets screwed. Arm Candy moves on to some other potential sucker. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!! Joker man had better get his head together pronto. Or he's going to lose his money to some bimbo's lawsuit for this, that, or the other thing. Bimbo.....well.....she might just be a lot smarter than any of the men she tries to scam are.... Bimbo is as bimbo does, as it were..... Too damn many people are THINKING they are looking for love when all they are looking for is a huge boost to their sagging egos. JMO, Pat P.S.: Kind of looks like she's got her needs pretty well figured out.....Joker Man still hasn't a clue.!!!!!!
it is the very same idea of marriage that is wrong: marriage comes from the wise consideration that persons are totally unreliable. But then, so: what good can possibily come out form so sad and true a consideration? As for the persons you mention: they don't want to be happy. Who said people want to be happy? or who said that they can arrange a realistic self-representation of where their interests rest, or of what they "truly" want? The fact we speculate about what we want and what we truly want, betrays the difficulties we have to tell what we want from what we want not - for we yearn for both equally, evidently. Dysfunctional marriages abound, and people who devotedly pursue in it unhappiness and punishment are common. He "proposed to a woman who griped" because he is caught in the necessity of demonstrating through his life that he can convert somebody who doesn't really love him into someone who does. We are emotional beggars in rags: for a smile, we may even sell out our all.
it is the very same idea of marriage that is wrong: marriage comes from the wise consideration that persons are totally unreliable. But then, so: what good can possibily come out form so sad and true a consideration? As for the persons you mention: they don't want to be happy. Who said people want to be happy? or who said that they can arrange a realistic self-representation of where their interests rest, or of what they "truly" want? The fact we speculate about what we want and what we truly want, betrays the difficulties we have to tell what we want from what we want not - for we yearn for both equally, evidently. Dysfunctional marriages abound, and people who devotedly pursue in it unhappiness and punishment are common. He "proposed to a woman who griped" because he is caught in the necessity of demonstrating through his life that he can convert somebody who doesn't really love him into someone who does. We are emotional beggars in rags: for a smile, we may even sell out our all.
