After reading your post I'm re-thinking the whole dating thing.. I know I believe in this: You don't find Love... LOVE finds YOU. I know this for a fact but I'm also afraid of this now because all my ex's Found me Lol,/ and all my relationships ended very badly... I don't think you can look for love and find it, that's rare but then again what in the world am I doing here? I still have two friends who call me and still ask me to marry them lol and a few other guy friends who are very good looking but I always say no. The reason? Because it's not any of them I'm waiting for...
If this Man even exists somewhere then I know I'm doing the right thing and if not it's ok because I can still connect with him in the next life ;)
I've had dreams of this Man for a long time but the problem is there's two of them lol I've been told one of them (1st one) is my soulmate and the (2nd one) is the real thing. So I'm confused... Isn't your soul mate the real thing? I know I would want to keep my soulmate not the other one.. I've actually had this weird feeling, like this Man is close to me and I know I would recognize him if I saw him because I've memorized his face. but whoever he is I know he's close and yet so far away (from me)
So this is the reason I'm picky... My family and friends have even gone as far as trying to set up a few dates for me with a doctor, a lawyer, a model, a soldier but nothing,)
maybe I'm just not ready or maybe I'm just waiting for him.
Great post.) It's good to be Picky *Smiles*
After reading your post I'm re-thinking the whole dating thing.. I know I believe in this: You don't find Love... LOVE finds YOU. I know this for a fact but I'm also afraid of this now because all my ex's Found me Lol,/ and all my relationships ended very badly... I don't think you can look for love and find it, that's rare but then again what in the world am I doing here? I still have two friends who call me and still ask me to marry them lol and a few other guy friends who are very good looking but I always say no. The reason? Because it's not any of them I'm waiting for...
If this Man even exists somewhere then I know I'm doing the right thing and if not it's ok because I can still connect with him in the next life ;)
I've had dreams of this Man for a long time but the problem is there's two of them lol I've been told one of them (1st one) is my soulmate and the (2nd one) is the real thing. So I'm confused... Isn't your soul mate the real thing? I know I would want to keep my soulmate not the other one.. I've actually had this weird feeling, like this Man is close to me and I know I would recognize him if I saw him because I've memorized his face. but whoever he is I know he's close and yet so far away (from me)
So this is the reason I'm picky... My family and friends have even gone as far as trying to set up a few dates for me with a doctor, a lawyer, a model, a soldier but nothing,)
maybe I'm just not ready or maybe I'm just waiting for him.
Hope you had as equally a rewarding experience in meeting him as I did.
Quoting michael_080
Sass,
Thank you. I will find her. I know she's out looking for me right now. It'll happen.
By the way, I love the pic you shared with Collin Powell. I met him at a local college here that he was speaking at. One of the great leaders of our era.
Love and blessing to you, Michael
Quoting michael_080
Sass,
Thank you. I will find her. I know she's out looking for me right now. It'll happen.
By the way, I love the pic you shared with Collin Powell. I met him at a local college here that he was speaking at. One of the great leaders of our era.
Love and blessing to you, Michael
Mike,
Hope you had as equally a rewarding experience in meeting him as I did.
Thanks Pat! Thought I'd upload some recent pics. Glad you approve..
Sass
Quoting Curious2078
Michael, in my experience--and 65 years has to be worth something--folks who call other folks too bloody picky are folks who will SETTLE for just about anyone as long as they're breathing--and can satisfy them in bed-- with no consideration of whether or not the partner-to-be in question can satisfy their emotional/psychological needs. And, ultimately, those emotional/psychological needs are the most important. Afterall, when the passion of romance's first bloom dies off as it always must to some extent, we need someone we can TALK with. Not TO: WITH!!!!! Stick with you pickieness, Michael. Nothing less will be satisfying.... And now, I hope you don't mind a minor hijack, Michael: SASS: Great new photos!!!!!!!!!!! Sexy stuff, girl. Good for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pat
Quoting Curious2078
Michael, in my experience--and 65 years has to be worth something--folks who call other folks too bloody picky are folks who will SETTLE for just about anyone as long as they're breathing--and can satisfy them in bed-- with no consideration of whether or not the partner-to-be in question can satisfy their emotional/psychological needs. And, ultimately, those emotional/psychological needs are the most important. Afterall, when the passion of romance's first bloom dies off as it always must to some extent, we need someone we can TALK with. Not TO: WITH!!!!! Stick with you pickieness, Michael. Nothing less will be satisfying.... And now, I hope you don't mind a minor hijack, Michael: SASS: Great new photos!!!!!!!!!!! Sexy stuff, girl. Good for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pat
Thanks Pat! Thought I'd upload some recent pics. Glad you approve..
Michael, in my experience--and 65 years has to be worth something--folks who call other folks too bloody picky are folks who will SETTLE for just about anyone as long as they're breathing--and can satisfy them in bed-- with no consideration of whether or not the partner-to-be in question can satisfy their emotional/psychological needs. And, ultimately, those emotional/psychological needs are the most important. Afterall, when the passion of romance's first bloom dies off as it always must to some extent, we need someone we can TALK with. Not TO: WITH!!!!! Stick with you pickieness, Michael. Nothing less will be satisfying.... And now, I hope you don't mind a minor hijack, Michael: SASS: Great new photos!!!!!!!!!!! Sexy stuff, girl. Good for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pat
Michael, in my experience--and 65 years has to be worth something--folks who call other folks too bloody picky are folks who will SETTLE for just about anyone as long as they're breathing--and can satisfy them in bed-- with no consideration of whether or not the partner-to-be in question can satisfy their emotional/psychological needs. And, ultimately, those emotional/psychological needs are the most important. Afterall, when the passion of romance's first bloom dies off as it always must to some extent, we need someone we can TALK with. Not TO: WITH!!!!! Stick with you pickieness, Michael. Nothing less will be satisfying.... And now, I hope you don't mind a minor hijack, Michael: SASS: Great new photos!!!!!!!!!!! Sexy stuff, girl. Good for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pat
I hope you find the right lady who meets the requirements of your imagination! Everyone deserves an amazing person to share their life with. Sometimes we may hit a few barriers in finding that right someone, but I'm a firm believer it's part of the journey.
Sass
Mike,
I hope you find the right lady who meets the requirements of your imagination! Everyone deserves an amazing person to share their life with. Sometimes we may hit a few barriers in finding that right someone, but I'm a firm believer it's part of the journey.
